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Post by Admin on May 20, 2014 11:44:38 GMT -4
The first one is our Maxwell on May 23rd and the next one is Me on May 21st 2 days before our Maxwell. Anymore May babies out there ? 
Candy the one and only
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Post by monalisa on May 20, 2014 16:44:56 GMT -4
Happy birthday Candy love you girl!
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Post by beverlygee on May 20, 2014 17:37:32 GMT -4
HAPPY BIRTHDAY CANDY!!!!! May your day be filled with joy and blessings overflowing.  |
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Post by Admin on May 21, 2014 15:54:01 GMT -4
Aw thank you so much ladies this means a lot because I do try my very best to show all of YOU the same respect though it might not go the same with myself. Even in the old forum I put on the face of it didn't bother me but it did I mean when you do so much as I've done for so long a little mention was all I thought would be noted. I gave shout outs to people who weren't even members but I will do what I do out of LOVE because I love it and that's all that matters. So sorry to be long winded but thanks again Monalisa and Beverlygee.
I will be kicking up my heels going dancing tonight with my boo and some friends looking forward to it.
C
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Post by monalisa on May 21, 2014 19:27:06 GMT -4
Your welcome! And remember everything you do will pay off... Maybe not now but it will come eventually...
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Post by beverlygee on May 21, 2014 23:26:54 GMT -4
I agree with Monalisa 100% ! Just be happy and do you.
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Post by beverlygee on May 21, 2014 23:32:41 GMT -4
HAPPY BORNDAY M!!! You look so scrumptious i wish i could give you a BIG HUG on your day. Love and blessings to you.
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Post by Admin on May 22, 2014 10:43:05 GMT -4
Your welcome! And remember everything you do will pay off... Maybe not now but it will come eventually... Thank you Monalisa but I am just taken back to see that even TODAY no one could say a word or 2 here to me well I think this shows me a lot I sometimes feel that after all this time some couldn't find the time to shout me out not just for the Born Day but because I host this site and brought this new site here for us to enjoy sharing our point of views and just say Hi or Happy Birthday anything to make this board active yet it gets soft in here at times I work very hard but I am sorry I am shaking my head this morning after only seeing 2 members showing me you get it isn't sitting to well with me right now. Once again THANK YOU Candy |
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Post by Admin on May 22, 2014 10:55:54 GMT -4
I agree with Monalisa 100% ! Just be happy and do you. Hi Bev and I did do me had a wonderful time last night but my dear as a host or just someone who's after all this time had always had a hard time getting the members to be more Respectful towards me members who as yourself know what I've dealt with and it wasn't pretty but I made it through yet now you would think it would be better all I see is a lack of members you either don't care and letting me know it or I'll get the late ones saying this or that I don't really care but I find this looks bad when a host gets this treatment when she's done so much for others here for years rather a Birthday shout out or helping with anything I was hands on. I am putting it out here I am shocked really shocked I am just as busy as anyone else here but this right here is just wrong.
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Post by beverlygee on May 22, 2014 23:23:41 GMT -4
I feel ya C! Truly i do. Don't let anyone or anything steal your joy, hold onto the power within you. There's nothing wrong with expressing how you feel, people will always disappoint us but The Most High always has our back.
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Post by Admin on May 23, 2014 10:08:02 GMT -4
But there is always that but how do I remain this person who's done a lot for people here and get this kind of treatment this isn't right at all I feel like I've been USED and this isn't the only time that members I gave so much support here have gave me the snubbed. I want to thank you for answering things here when you can see I know about your personal hurts Bev and for you and Monalisa and at times Gabi have at least shown you like this board I swear having this kind of membership isn't what this joining is about you either belong online because you like what your getting here or why in the world be here if you don't. Maxwell never gave me the drive to continue it was always the ones like yourself who made me want to do this and stick with it at the old Yahoo board if Maxwell was paying me to do this I would say NO WAY because there isn't enough money in the world to get disrespected like I was in the very beginning all that hurt me and it still stings me to my very core. But I've moved on from the haters yet I still feel the bruises when I see things like this though small as it is. You have things on earth with bigger problems that's what this place is for to express all anyone wants to trying to lighten the load and just give and share things that will enlighten the person. I am lost about this still like I've said I am feeling the sting Bev and you bet if I did this there would be hey Candy I didn't get a shout out from you girl no matter what it was. I'll just do what I do here but I am not feeling right about it it's getting smaller here and for the News I give it should be more people here and the ones who joined just won't do anything but only 4 or 5 at a time SMH. Well I know what you said is with reason Bev but put yourself in my place as The Host you will feel some kind of way believe me after years and years of this messy way about only some have made me feel like why in the world do I put up with that. I've been praying hard for members who have shared personal messages with me and letting them know God is able but do they ever think about just maybe Candy who like a kind word not just We Appreciate All You Do that at times isn't enough that's to easy because showing that towards me isn't saying that's what some might mean it comes off like yet I do be, in the same way you don't for lack of showing me something like support for this new board it just feels wrong at times. Toni and Shilo and more older members know what it's all about I know about what they have going on in life NO coming down on them or anyone here I hope that what I am saying won't be taken the wrong way this isn't new but it's been getting old with me for years now enough is enough it won't hurt to just say something then leave how hard is that not just me getting a birthday greeting but the whole job I am doing here from celebrity info to health and all the threads it's not easy but when I see zeros and I do see members who are online learking but will never ever say a word is rather odd but hey I will stick with it it's not about Maxwell he's just the one who gives the place the name but in the end this board is about all things in my world of Pop Culture it's my hobby it's what I do I don't like social media sites so this is for the ones who want something and know they can get it here but fewer members are not making it easy for me to keep on and on with something so nice clean and respectful for all concern. You know you have websites that still think MJ is alive and well and have fans coming out of the woodwork now I realize MJ has millions of fans but for finding out if he's alive sites now that's just crazy but hey that's what they are into here I am with our living and breathing celebrity and not even a bite like I said crazy.
Once again thank you for showing your help and giving me something besides nothing to deal with.
Have a bless day LOVE
Candy
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Post by mistaken7 on May 23, 2014 11:03:43 GMT -4
The first one is our Maxwell on May 23rd and the next one is Me on May 21st 2 days before our Maxwell. Anymore May babies out there ?
Candy the one and only
OH MY DEAR HAPPY BORNDAY AND MANYMANYMANY MORE You are Lovely BIGHUG |
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Post by beverlygee on May 24, 2014 21:53:26 GMT -4
Hi C, what can i say to make you feel better about something you're so passionate about, and yet you're feeling a lack of support and appreciation? I think i mentioned to you before that i have arthritic hands and fingers, and i do check the site for topics that interest me, but not daily. So to respond to everything is challenging for me and i only do so when i'm not in any pain. But to put myself in your shoes, yes it would be hurtful to me, and i would just feel that the physical pain isn't worth it and give it up. But you my dear are a very strong lady and you're gonna do what Candy feels good about.
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Post by Admin on May 25, 2014 8:32:25 GMT -4
I spoke about your problems with your health as I respect your trying to be apart of the group where as some don't feel the need to belong. I have nothing to say about why some will join and not what the board says participate the only thing that gets me was this Birthday thing I am grown it doesn't speak to me as kids will want their day to be it's a matter of principle for myself like I do and do for all here and only at that time 2 gave me a nod now what that says to me is I'll come here for news give Miss Candy a hand but but as far as showing her a shout out she can go and blank herself I am sorry Bev but this has happen why to often it happen at Yahoo forum as well as far as I see it The Mothers Day thread was weak there as well I don't know if it's that no one is here or what but I can see who comes on here and if the ones who peek in would show some kind of support you wouldn't here my screams at all but this right here is and has been getting real tired with me. I've always shown support with the group for years but I didn't always get that back and I am older now we all are what is this about that's all I want to know what is that all about.
LOVE YOU Bev and thank you for your support and the ones who come here and support me thus far. If it's to hard for some then go to nosey Facebook or Twitter or go to Maxwell's accounts and just keep saying how fine he is all dang day long LOL because here it's more to grow on more info of choice oh how sorry I am about this but this is my baby I birth this place for people who are older or who would make a fit to be here and love being here but as a Host the shame of it all is at times I feel just a bit snubbed.
Miss Candy mood is Happy : )
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Post by beverlygee on May 25, 2014 20:37:06 GMT -4
I'm glad your mood is happy and it should be. But there were times i thought of not logging into the site anymore, and that's because i felt i had to respond to everything, and then even i didn't get any responses to threads i tried to create, but it's all good. My mood is always happy because I'm blessed.
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Post by Shilo on May 25, 2014 20:49:09 GMT -4
Hi Lady C, First I want to wish you a Happy Belated Birthday, from the sounds of it, you had a great time!! Also after reading this thread I feel sad that there are times that you feel 'snubbed" because NO ONE EVER wants YOU to feel that way, you've done so much to make this group WONDERFUL AND AMAZING FROM DAY ONE!!! Just know despite me not saying it enough, you are appreciated in all that you do(hug)and now that I'm able to be online more, I'll definitely be here supporting you, the members and the group ((Hugs)) Shilo |
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Post by Deleted on May 26, 2014 4:46:14 GMT -4
Belated birthday wishes. |
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Post by Admin on May 26, 2014 17:33:16 GMT -4
I'm glad your mood is happy and it should be. But there were times i thought of not logging into the site anymore, and that's because i felt i had to respond to everything, and then even i didn't get any responses to threads i tried to create, but it's all good. My mood is always happy because I'm blessed.
Bev you know what I've notice is that there is a misunderstaning between you all not myself but when you all say you like this group I see at times where there is no involvement with each other I saw it at Yahoo and at times here. Now I make it my point to respond as often as I can to you all be as a group it's very lacks like I would ask the group about anything maybe if anyone would like to know how to do this or that now maybe at times one of you would say yes Candy how do you do this or that then when I would help with the info then it goes dead I have no idea if the Avatars were understood or the videos or just about anything anyone would like to know if anyone got it. And how can all who say they like it or they like what I do when it's all the opposite I see when you sit back and see how it all looks on my in it's really funny Bev but I get what your saying I think it's wrong when only one will respond to you or any of you poor me keep on adding videos and god only knows who's really liking them LOL or Toni adding her music taste for our enjoyment I will a least listen or Like It to show her I did see what she did here. It's very confussing as for responding to everything NO THAT'S NOT TRUE Bev oh my god that is so not true I only add things here for whatever you all feel is to your liking it could be whatever but you all go at your on speed you might feel that way because we are smaller and if no one is reacting to what I sent in here then you will feel the need to go and do but nope such is not the case. Because I feel like what I am doing isn't working but Maxwell's fans have been very offish with me since 2003 at the old board I would add things there and it was like pulling teeth to get some kind of reaction I tell you it's getting so funny here now you know where theres mostly women something odd will happen the nature of us I guess. I had one member who took me wrong on all counts all I ever ask was some support nothing more then that I mean how can that hurt just say something or just get into the topics of choice but that came and went for her so she's gone. It's only a meeting place for the likes of Maxwell and entertainment of all pop and urban culture I don't ask much only that we enjoy it here but at least let each other know it right.
See what your doing just vibing with me that's NICE and in return I too you that's all it's about sharing our views.
Thanks I've really enjoyed it maybe if some read my points and your mentions they might get a feel for how the flow should go easy and mostly relaxing.
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Post by Admin on May 26, 2014 17:34:24 GMT -4
Bev you know what I've notice is that there is a misunderstaning between you all not myself but when you all say you like this group I see at times where there is no involvement with each other I saw it at Yahoo and at times here. Now I make it my point to respond as often as I can to you all be as a group it's very lacks like I would ask the group about anything maybe if anyone would like to know how to do this or that now maybe at times one of you would say yes Candy how do you do this or that then when I would help with the info then it goes dead I have no idea if the Avatars were understood or the videos or just about anything anyone would like to know if anyone got it. And how can all who say they like it or they like what I do when it's all the opposite I see when you sit back and see how it all looks on my in it's really funny Bev but I get what your saying I think it's wrong when only one will respond to you or any of you poor me keep on adding videos and god only knows who's really liking them LOL or Toni adding her music taste for our enjoyment I will a least listen or Like It to show her I did see what she did here. It's very confussing as for responding to everything NO THAT'S NOT TRUE Bev oh my god that is so not true I only add things here for whatever you all feel is to your liking it could be whatever but you all go at your own speed you might feel that way because we are smaller and if no one is reacting to what I sent in here then you will feel the need to go and do but nope such is not the case. Because I feel like what I am doing isn't working but Maxwell's fans have been very offish with me since 2003 at the old board I would add things there and it was like pulling teeth to get some kind of reaction I tell you it's getting so funny here now you know where theres mostly women something odd will happen the nature of us I guess. I had one member who took me wrong on all counts all I ever ask was some support nothing more then that I mean how can that hurt just say something or just get into the topics of choice but that came and went for her so she's gone. It's only a meeting place for the likes of Maxwell and entertainment of all pop and urban culture I don't ask much only that we enjoy it here but at least let each other know it right.
See what your doing just vibing with me that's NICE and in return I too you that's all it's about sharing our views.
Thanks I've really enjoyed it maybe if some read my points and your mentions they might get a feel for how the flow should go easy and mostly relaxing.
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Post by lalonee5 on May 26, 2014 22:23:08 GMT -4
Sorry I miss your big day so I would like to say happy belated birthday and I hope you know I feel some of the most beautiful things in life cannot be seen or touched they must be felt within the heart....I pray you had the best day ever God bless you miss C .
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Post by Admin on May 27, 2014 11:37:31 GMT -4
Thank You ladies ever so much it's always nice to be nice and getting it in return is the bright light I seek in others.
Miss Candy
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Post by beverlygee on May 27, 2014 18:21:38 GMT -4
Thanks C for the confirmation. I will try to create more topics and get more involved when i can.
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Post by lalonee5 on May 27, 2014 18:53:12 GMT -4
Same here ..this is a lovely site with good people !!
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Post by Admin on May 28, 2014 17:39:45 GMT -4
Always know whatever YOU ALL do when you can it's always " appreciated ".
Candy : )
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Post by beverlygee on May 28, 2014 23:25:45 GMT -4
Well as soon as i get the hang of posting links, i'll be creating threads often. Just gotta keep at it.  |
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