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Post by Admin on May 27, 2015 16:38:01 GMT -4
According to actress Tatum O'Neal she is now a Lesbian she's had failed relationships and marriage so now she's into women. Some women have been so hurt and done wrong that they are thinking their own sex would be better fitted because we understand each other but really though is this the answer for bad misbehave men ?
Would anyone here go the other way or is there anyone here who is now liking their own sex not to be nosy other asking for a topic of choice only.
Candy aka C
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Post by mistaken7 on May 31, 2015 10:57:02 GMT -4
Oh Gosh No - I Love Beautiful Brown Men (nom nom nom) sometimes they don't act right but then again we all have our "moments/days"...anywho, i'm not knocking anyone who does "go the other way"...it's just not for moi. Is this the answer for misbehaving gents? I don't know a good answer because everyone's experience is different - in Tatum's case, we don't know what type of men she was/has been dealing with etc...to get a fair answer, we'd literally have to collect all the facts and dissect them accordingly. LOL Love Relationship topics...thank you C.
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Post by Admin on Jun 1, 2015 11:55:01 GMT -4
John McEnroe her first husband Ex tennis champion was a hot head on the court only god knows how far he took that out on her. Her brother had serious problems her father actor Ron O'Neal wasn't any better girls growing up view sometimes the men around then and sometimes that can lead them down a bad pathway towards finding love. Just thinking out loud about her life, as for me I will not go the other way when I have seen the bloody trail LOL I'll just stick to being me as a woman who loves men oh but good ones smile. Thanks Toni for your input : ) C
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Post by Shilo on Jun 2, 2015 9:20:27 GMT -4
Though I personally see sexuality as fluid, and for some it can 'ebb and flow' meaning you can fall in love with the person and not the gender. But for some like Ms Tatum, it's something she's 'choosing apparently' and nothing is wrong with that, but if she's choosing to date women because she's been disappointed, hurt, betrayed, disrespected and lie to by the men in her life, she's gonna be disappointed again, because depending on the women she chooses, they can also hurt her in that way.
One of my besties is a lesbian, and the SAME issues my hetro friends have with men, she has with women, no different. Both can break your heart. I see it as the same as some people 'choosing' dating outside their race because 'their men' has hurt them so badly and they think another race won't. #peoplearepeople
As far as me ever being in a relationship with a women, the thought doesn't make me cringe or freak out, or make me declare how much I love men, it is ALWAYS about a loving, respectful and TRUTHFUL connection with another. NEVER like Ms Tatum, because I've been hurt by men.
Shilo
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